The reason you keep getting results you don’t like in life is because you are responding to the world with the same programing. You must reprogram yourself to think and act as the person you want to become to change your life.
For example, if you wanted to be promoted on your job, you would begin dressing for the part as much as appropriately possible. You would act the part as appropriately possible. You would arrive early to work and stay a little later. You would know your job inside out and learn as much as possible about the job you seek. You would return on time from breaks and be a problem solver. You would also be willing to change companies if needed.
Your thoughts determine your actions. Change your thoughts and you will change your life because your behavior will change.
Meditating, reading motivational books, watching inspirational and motivational shows are some ways to help you reprogram your mind. Study and learn about the things that are important to you. Become an expert. Reprogram yourself to become the person you want to be.
Stay away from anything negative. Negativity will hold you back and keep you from your dreams.
Decide who you want to be in life and then start reprogramming your mind to become it.